Action
Sheet:
What Teenagers Can Do About Prejudice
1. Work on
yourself first. You may feel defensive or want to deny you're
prejudiced. That's a pretty normal reaction. So the first step is:
Recognize that you, like everybody else, have been "programmed" to have
prejudices and stereotypical thoughts, to one extent or another. Don't
feel that you're a bad person if you uncover some of these in yourself.
Feeling defensive or guilty will only make you want to forget all about
working on this problem!
Then look for possible prejudices within
yourself and for ways you may discriminate without even realizing
it.
a. Be conscious
of your discomfort or fear around certain types of people. For example,
if you're not Black, do you automatically feel afraid when approaching a
group of African Americans? Or do you feel upset that they are "hanging
out" together, as though they have somehow excluded you?
b. Be aware of
tendencies you may have to judge other people because of their
appearance, clothing, or speech. This is especially important for
teenagers, because they're under so much pressure from friends to make
these judgements in order to fit in.
c. Do you ever
think that members of a particular group have no sense of humor? That's
a clue that you may need to look deeper within yourself for prejudices.
What seems like a joke or harmless teasing to you may not be funny to
someone else – especially if they're the object of the "humor" and
they've heard it all many times before.
d. Take a look
at your nonverbal communication with other people. For instance, do you
establish friendly eye contact with some people, but tend to avoid
looking directly at others? When having a conversation, do you keep a
greater distance from people in some groups?
e. Examine
whether you equally include people from other groups in your activities
such as discussions, group projects, and social events.
2. Think of
different ways you could get to know more people in other groups or
learn more about them. Then reach out, expose yourself to new people,
cultures, and activities.
a. Read books
and see movies about persons ethnicities or sexual orientations, or the
other sex.
b. Attend
activities sponsored through regular events, like Black History Month,
Gay Pride Day, and International Women's Day to learn new and
interesting information.
c. If you don't
already have a multicultural curriculum in your school, ask for
it.
3. What can you
do if you are a victim of, or a witness to, a prejudice-based
incident?
a. Unless your
safety is in question, speak out. Often "I" messages are helpful, to say
how you feel about what you've seen or experienced. Examples:
"I feel
upset by this poster, because it is insulting to African Americans."
"When you say Lisa rates a 2 on a scale of 10, I fell uneasy. I
don't think it's very nice to judge other people that way."
b. Report
serious incidents to an authority you can trust to do something. This
may be respected teacher, for instance, or a committee designated to
address the issue. If the first person you approach does nothing, try
again with someone else. This is important. Incidents can escalate into
even more serious problems.
4. Work together
with other people to organize new solutions to the problems of
discrimination and ethnoviolence. Here are a few ideas:
a. In your
school, form a Task Force on Racism, and invite everyone to join. Racism
isn't just a problem for its immediate victims, it's a problem for
everybody. Within the Task Force, discuss what you see as the problems
and solutions in your school.
b. You might
want to do a small survey of different kinds of people in your school,
to find out what kinds of experiences they've had with intergroup
conflict. The Prejudice Institute can give you advice about how to do
such a survey.
c. Join together
with other students to press for a multicultural curriculum.
d. Form a
support group, with other interested people, to deal with prejudice and
discrimination (yours and other people's). You could discuss specific
personal situations which come up, and roleplay possible ways of
handling them.
e. Work to get a
peer mediation group in your school. This is a program in which students
are trained to mediate conflicts between other students, at their
request. The Institute can direct you to organizations which assist in
starting mediation projects.
5. Recognize
that you can only do so much at the local level. Then you need to join
with others of all ages and geographical areas and ethnic backgrounds in
working for social justice.
Together we can
move mountains.
— Barbara
Larcom, The Prejudice Institute
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